Mort,
Of course this is just my opinion and school of thought.
I don't think I would put too much thought into the current lift now.....
If you are looking to re-configure what you have now I would look at a JKS 1.25" Body lift first. This would allow you to run 1" taller motor mounts and install high clearnace belly pan and fuel tank skid that pushes the tank back up in the frame 1.5" like those from Rokmen.
Then, you could look at some control arms with Johhny Joints, also from Rokmen. This would take some stress off of those mounts.
In the end all you are left with is the coils and shocks, which I would assume you could have your pick accross the price range. Currie on the high end and RC on the lower end......3 to 4 inch coils should be plenty at that point.
Regradless you can't overlook the step of setting up extended bumpstops. You can always limit your uptravel to keep the tires out of the body.